BBW Dating sometimes confuses those not familiar with
the abbreviations and acronyms used in ads for singles dating and personals.
Does it mean bbw cupid? When I first came
across the term, I thought it meant BBW. After a little exposure
to the scene, and confirmation from other authors, I've come to realize it
means Big Beautiful Woman. In other words, it refers to those women likely to
be found in the plus size community.
Of course, there is no hard and fast rule as to where
the scale of being a BBW begins. Many people don't like the idea of placing
labels on people (unless they are unambiguously favorable, like,
"genius"). However, many do find labels a convenient short-hand and
will judge others, or conveniently group them, according to the job they hold,
their race, color, car they drive, income earned, etc. Even their size.
Although a BBW may come in many shapes and sizes, you
are probably a BBW if you, and those who know you, would consider you to be
overweight. This excludes anorexics who believe their skeletal frames to be
excessive!
The modern BBW is more likely to be a curvy woman who
is proud of it. Some of the most successful women in the public eye have at
times been considered BBWs. For instance:
Kate Winslet, Queen Latifah, Jennifer Lopez, Oprah
Winfrey, Marilyn Monroe, Kirsty Alley, Sybil Shepherd.
I'm sure you could think of many more.
Often, these women wouldn't be considered fat. They
are simply built the way a woman should. For instance, Marilyn Monroe was
considered to be one of the sexiest women who ever lived. Voluptuous and
exciting but, by today's standards, her ample charms might be considered
overweight.
For anyone interested in dating, meeting quality
singles can be a challenge, regardless of size. For those who come in larger
packages, this can be especially so, why some singles dating services have
emerged which provide especially for those who are plus sized. They cater for
singles seeking the opposite sex, as well as same sex relationships. These
sites are for those looking for the BBW or BHM (I'll let you work out the last
one) and their admirers. Modern matchmaking techniques provide opportunities
for friendship, companionship, or even romance and love. Simply place your own
personal ad with one of these services.
It's often been said that men naturally like women
with curves and are tired of those who look like brooms with long hair. Women
with curves are often considered to be among the sexiest. Look at Jennifer
Lopez, for instance.
That is also why BBW dating sites are flourishing. For
the single, Big Beautiful Woman she now only must log onto the internet if she
wishes to find a date and no longer has fear she'll be considered dateless, and
loveless, in the eyes of her scrawny friends. There are many men looking for a
woman who looks just like you!
Some
Tips For Spicing Up The Life Of The Full-Figured Woman:
• Plan Ahead.
Anticipate some more activity in your romantic life and buy some really sexy
plus size lingerie. Whether you're thinking of being slinky, naughty,
sophisticated or...whatever, playful gear is available online if you don't want
to buy it at an offline store.
• Give serious
thought to the photo that will accompany your profile. This is extremely
important. While you might hope that your great personality will attract more
people, this is hard to convey in a photo. The reality is that profiles with
photos bring many more responses.
• It's
important to look relaxed in your BBW photo. You can compose it to present
yourself in the best light but it's far better that the photo doesn't look too
staged.
• Be sure to
show your face clearly. When a website displays a thumbnail-sized photo of you,
a full length, full-figured shot will mean your features cannot be seen. A
close up is better.
• Don't obscure
your features with sunglasses, shades, hats, or poor lighting. It looks as
though you have something to hide. This can be almost as bad as not posting a
photo at all.
This is your opportunity to radiate confidence and
friendliness. After all, big IS beautiful.
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